As more and more of us try to embrace these new methods of communication it quickly becomes clear that just when you think you have one thing down, a new technology is thrown into the mix that you feel you must learn and do your best to master.

Here’s the thing you need to know as a business trying to inform consumers about your brand: just because a technology exists, there’s no rule that says you have to use it.  Something that is a perfect fit for one business might be of little value to another. For instance, if your business relies on attracting retail customers then it might make sense to incentivize people to duke it out for the title of Foursquare “Mayor” of your location. However, if your business does not require customers to travel to your location, then this is of little value.  So, instead of trying to do it all and spreading your efforts too thin, take a step back and properly consider your goals and your message and figure out which tool or tools are the ones to achieve those goals. And remember, there’s nothing to stop you experimenting with new ideas in the future or adding to your marketing mix at any time.

Written By: Adria Higginson

For business owners still trying to figure out why their company should use a Facebook Page for marketing strategy, here’s one great reason. According to a recent Mashable article, the average Facebook user who “Likes” your page has more than double the average number of friends. In social networking math, this means your name/brand/offer has more than twice the chance to be seen thanks to avid Facebook “Likers”. In fact, remember good old math problems like what does 100 squared equal? Yup. That’s the power of the “Like” button.

Facebook reports messages from publishers saying that when these users visit your Facebook Page and your website, “they are more engaged and stay longer because their real identity and real friends are driving the experience through social plugins.” As an example, NHL.com reported that pages per user was up by 92%, time on-site was up by 85%, video viewing increased by 86% more videos and overall visits went up by 36%.

For businesses still holding back from developing a Facebook Page, we suggest you stop asking why and start asking how. How can you turn your Page into a secondary website for your business, with plug-ins and content that your audience will stick around to read and interact with? How do you build a Page that can show up high in Search Engine results? And how do you get your target audience to complete whatever transaction your business needs via Facebook?

It’s happening every day with Facebook Pages like Sears, Ford, Target and even small businesses like Bubbles Car Wash and Wahoo’s Fish Tacos. Remember, these days people want to engage with businesses. They want to like you, but it’s your responsibility to give them the reasons why they should. The days of success revolving around the largest share of voice, the lowest price, or the longest running business success story are coming to an end. Fine tune your target audience down to where they “hang out” on line, learn what they want to hear from you, then give them something to talk about (hopefully good!). If you do it right, you’ll see the only button more powerful in the online world than “Like” is “Share“.

1. Keep giving and contributing more than the competition. Pay back will be huge.
2. Every tweet, blog entry, comment and status update will be saved forever and is permanently part of your brand.
3. Before permission to market comes permission to connect. There’s a lot of trust building in between.
4. Make it easy for people to find you. While you’re out looking for business there is an entire market looking for you.
5. It’s not about B2B or B2C it’s about person to person marketing in social media.
6. Use the back links function in Google to see who is linking to your competitors. Reach out to those connectors.
7. Go wide with social media then build strong deep networks by going deep with the phone, Skype, webinars or in-person.
8. Twitter search and tools like Twellow.com can dampen the noise down from millions on voices to the exact ones you’re targeting.
9. Picking a fight publicly stays on record long after the battle is done. Rarely is it worth it.
10. Not getting the results you want? Are you asking for help often enough? It’s about community. Reach out.
11. Share and give more than you think is practical… then do it again. It will build positive momentum for your brand.
12. When partnering with other social media influencers start by making sure your values and principles are aligned.

Remember the days when you had a best friend, and then maybe 5 or 6 other close friends? That circle was enough, wasn’t it? Spending quality time with them was usually very rewarding.

Now we move to the digital age. Facebook, Twitter, Foursquare, LinkedIn and others, where popularity is based on the number of friends, connections, how many people “like” you or your business, or how many places you’re the “Mayor”. And heaven forbid if you show only a few!

Obviously it’s easier to have more friends these days. And easier to stay in touch. For one thing, you can talk to all of them at the same time via most of these social media tools. And it doesn’t matter where they are. Heck, it doesn’t even matter what language they speak because Google will translate it with one simple click.

But, what’s happening to the quality of friendships? Quantity is often forced to replace quality in the digital world unless you want everyone in your growing circle to know the finite details of your life that you might otherwise only share with a few close confidants.

Time will tell how this new world of mass-connections pays off. No one can say at this point. But we do know that society is changing because of this technology. What we need to remember along the way is that it’s a choice we make, not a mandate.

Case in point. You’re driving around an area looking for an interesting restaurant. You’d love to have a library of options at your fingertips but too many choices, especially irrelevant ones, are just as useless as none at all. So you push one simple button on your mobile phone and maybe add in the price range you’re looking for. And, oh, you’re in the mood for Thai food. As Emeril would say, BAM! You have the top options right there on your mobile phone, along with reviews. But that’s only the beginning. You also see who you know that’s eating there right now, how long the wait is, and what the specials are for that evening. And because your phone knows where you ate last night, last week, last month, it gives you a comparison in terms of how much you spent, and how many people who ate at the other places you ate at also ate at the restaurant options currently showing on your mobile phone.

This is a basic Geotargeting service that’s been around for a few years now. In the tech world it’s no longer a big deal. But the most important part of this technology is just now being realized, as people become more and more overwhelmed with the vast amount of information available to them (usually for free) online. When it comes to needing/doing things locally, this takes the online world and narrows it down to something as small as a neighborhood block.

Stop for a moment and think about how that can help your business. This technology not only allows them to find you, but you to find them. Hmmm…. Opportunity? We think so.

So guess what’s happening? People are starting to turn off and tune out. Especially those who’ve been trying to figure out how to listen over the past two years, when the amount of online noise has increased ten-fold. Oh sure, Facebook is growing. But users are becoming much more selective about who they friend. Meanwhile other tools, like Twitter and Friend Feed, are seeing 20% of their subscribers making 80% of the noise.

In short, quality over quantity is the new trend.

This is good news for smart marketers. With the proper tools you can find your perfect customers and they’ll be able to hear you. You won’t be fighting the equivalent of 1,300 daily traditional media messages the average American didn’t ask to see but the advertisers still paid for. Marketers will get to enjoy quality over quantity too.

Let’s see what happens when the noise quiets down and people start using all these wonderful (yet currently loud) online tools more effectively. It should be the best time good marketers have ever had.

I saw my Mac desktop computer with Facebook pulled up. I was in the process of sending a client a virtual piece of birthday cake. It was his birthday the next day, of which I’d been reminded by Facebook, Plaxo and Linked-In via email. Facebook was waiting for me to complete the virtual birthday cake purchase transaction, because a piece of virtual birthday cake now costs money. The $1.99 charge was being billed to me through my AT&T iPhone account, and I was waiting for a text message with a PIN that I had to input into the Facebook page in order to send the virtual piece of birthday cake.

My iPhone was situated on my desk in between my Mac desktop computer and my Mac Book Pro laptop computer. As I was keeping an eye out for the text with the PIN to come through on my iPhone, I was listening to a live podcast (from Germany) via my Mac desktop computer. The podcast was giving me instructions for using the new Google Social Media Search technology that I had just joined as a beta tester by signing up via Twitter that morning. As I was listening to the podcast, I was simultaneously downloading a recent Brandtailers video from my Flip camcorder onto my Mac Book Pro laptop, which I was going to quickly edit and upload to You Tube.

All of the above occurred within a five minute period.

For some of you reading this you’re saying, “No way. I’ll never be like that.” For others reading this you’re saying, “Yeah, so what. I call that Tuesday.” Well, guess what? The “I call that Tuesday” readers win. Because it’s where we will all be very soon. Eric Schmidt, CEO of Google, recently gave his predictions for what the Internet will look like in the next five years. This one particular prediction says it all… “Five years is a factor of ten in Moore’s Law, meaning that computers will be capable of far more by that time than they are today.”

You can embrace this technology or ignore it, but you can’t stop it. 2010 marks the year of No Going Back. I choose to embrace, participate, and use it for doing good. How about you?

Get out there and use it as yourself not your business. Seems obvious, right? But it’s an important distinction to make. The best way to learn how this stuff works is to use it like everyone else is using it: to communicate with your family, find long lost friends, follow your favorite band or sports team, don’t sign up and immediately start trying to use it to market your business, that can come later, once you understand how it works.

Let’s talk about Facebook and Twitter, two services that most everyone has heard about now, and I’ll use myself as an example. I’m a slightly different case than most people because I’ve been on the internet nearly as long as it’s been around, but all this social media stuff was just as new to me as it was to everyone else and I was a fairly reluctant participant.

I signed up on Facebook, found a few friends, wrote a few comments on my wall and kind of stalled out. Then I found a couple of old high school friends that I’d been out of touch with for years. That got me interested again. Now, I use Facebook to chat with those friends and follow what they are up to. Remember, you can put your photos up there, you can do every poll that your friends send you, you can play every game that comes along, or you can pass on all that.

Twitter’s a different beast all together (and a lot of people are trying to figure out what kind of beast it is). I follow a few of my friends that tweet; I follow my pro soccer team; I follow a few of the podcasters I listen to. Every once in awhile I tweet something, but not very often. Many people like the fact that they can have a conversation on twitter, I’m not on it often enough to do that, but I read some of the conversations of the people I follow.

So, get out there and get a Facebook account, play around with it a little. Go get a twitter account and see if any of your favorite celebrities or sports teams or authors are tweeting, follow them for a bit, see what you think. Remember, you don’t have to accept every friend request on Facebook and if you follow someone and they are inundating your twitter stream with inane chatter, stop following them.

Both services will walk you through getting started. When you write your profile, remember you’re writing about you, not about your business. Also remember that everything you’re writing is public, pretty much anyone can read it.